I never quite know what to say at a funeral...
What’s proper funeral etiquette?
If there’s ever a time when we’re afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing, it’s when a death occurs. But there are many things you can do to be sure that your words and actions are appropriate.
Fortunately, doing and saying the “right thing” during such a sensitive time is largely a matter of good manners and common sense. Over the years, we’ve been asked many excellent questions about funeral etiquette, and we’re happy to offer these answers.
When it's time: Sorting through your loved one's possessionsTime has passed and you’re finally ready to go through the belongings left behind by someone who has died. While some people may feel compelled to keep everything, and others simply want to get rid of anything that reminds them of their loss, the best course is probably somewhere in the middle. Solicit the help of a close friend or family member. (Too many people may make decision-making difficult.) Be prepared to take your time, and to split the responsibility into many sessions if you need to.
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